Guy; Who You Be?


Thanks for joining me as I kick off this. I have discovered that is important that we(guys) are educated as much as possible.

So, I am kicking off Man_Of_SWAG with the 3H of a MAN. An aside quickly. Heard of the acronym for MAN?

Timing is important in a man’s life. Don’t put the things to be done at night in the morning, else you’ll have NAM rather than MAN. Timing is key.

Now to the 3H of a man. These three essential parts must work appropriately to have a complete man
Ready? Let’s go!
1. The ‘Head’.
This is something most guys like to be called and treated as, especially by the female folks. Unfortunately our definition of ‘Head’ is faulty. Away from that a little. We’ll come back to it.

A guy’s head must be correct! Lol… Sounds funny but true! Your head must be correct! You can’t have a ‘correct’ head if don’t deliberately make it correct.

Guys now know how to dress and you can not but say correct!👍 Look at some shoes and you can see your teeth in them, another correct! Put some of this guys in a serious discussion of life, and they are lost…there’s no idea to share, no question to ask or worse they are not interested in ‘serious things’.

Guy, make your head correct!


C’mon, Expose yourself to knowledge, places and people. Don’t just meet people so as to groove, tap into their well of experience and knowledge.

Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out.”

Don’t just buy new tuxedos and colognes, search out books,tapes, songs, whatever media works for you. Decide to deliberately build capacity.

When great packaging meets correct content, it’s a BAM!!!

So Bros, please have a correct head.

Now to being the head palava,

Allow me throw a little relationship spice here.
The man is the head of the woman in a relationship or marriage doesn’t mean he is better than her.

“On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23 and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, 24 while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, 25 so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other.26 If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.”

Bro, keep your feeling like a boss in check when you are around her. You lead, yes, and you listen to. Thank God lead and listen both start with ‘L’.

I’ll stop here before it gets long…😁😂

Join me next week Tuesday for part 2. We will be looking at things like, ‘is it weak for a guy to cry openly?’
Please feel free to drop off our questions and comments.



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