Hullo, I hope you had a fruitful day? If you did, I’m indeed happy for you, but if you didn’t, well, tomorrow will be another opportunity to create something for yourself again, please don’t lose hope.
We go straight into the final lap of this series of ‘How to kill your step-mother without blood on your hands’. Ready?
Before I let you in on what it is that I would want you to take note of today, please note that the whole process is similar to this analogy I give about intercession. If I was to give you a hammer to break down a wall, except the wall wasn’t a wall in the first place, I assure you that the wall won’t fall with the first hit. Depending on the type of wall, the hammer will most likely bounce back. Another hit would put a scratch on the wall, with continuous hitting of the hammer, a crack will surface afterwards, and if you continue the hitting, the wall will come down flat.
In the same vein, depending on if you are trying to break the wall of friction between your step mom and you or you are trying to make the relationship better, stay consistent with what you are doing. You’ll see the change you crave soon enough.
3. Send Her A Special Message.
I believe that no matter how bad you might perceive someone to be, I believe that there’s always an iota of goodness in them, if only we look from a different perspective. A times you just need to look at them from the way they love in their own children, it shows there’s the capacity to love there, right? So, the message you are sending could be a ‘thank you’ you message of how she has being a blessing to you, a ‘love message’. Depending on her, it could be an audio recording you’ll send to her or a handwritten letter you’ll send to her. Then go the extra mile and add a gift to the message. It doesn’t have to be something really huge, but make sure it is of value. A special food you know she likes, a drink or pastry she enjoys.
Do that and let’s see what happens afterwards
4. Celebrate Her When You Have The Opportunity To.
As much as possible, create opportunities to say a good word about her in her presence. Let her know you are working on the relationship, or at least trying to.
I hope that all these really help make the relationship between you and your stepmother better. Please do update me about how it’s all going, I’ll be glad to help in whatever way I can.
Now, go kill that step-mother!
5. Well…the fifth will be given to me by you. what do you think should be no 5?